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How to Move with a Teenager

Posted By relocation On August 30, 2011 @ 9:09 am In DIY Move,family moving,Moving,Moving Day,Moving with Kids,Plan Your Move | No Comments

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Moving with a teenager doesn't have to be difficult. Check out our tips for making this move easy!

By Dermound Becker
Special to Relocation.com

The stresses, strains, upheavals and turmoil of moving [2] are difficult enough, but when you add teenagers to the mix, chances are things will be even more complicated. Not only do teenagers have raging hormones and pendulum-like mood swings, they generally, do not react well to change. When a family moves, they will have to leave everything that is safe and comfortable including their school,  sports and other extramural activities and, most importantly, their friends. This could be a recipe for catastrophe, if it is not handled with a delicate hand and a lot of understanding.

The most important step to inform your family that you will be relocating [3] to another area early on. Sit down with them and explain the reason for the move – whether it is for financial reasons or a new job. The main thing is to be honest and direct with your teens. Many teenagers [4] feel that they are already adults and therefore need to be consulted on such a momentous decision; others will suddenly feel that they are not yet adults at all and will feel very vulnerable to the consequences of the move.

Throughout the process of planning, organizing and packing [5],  take the time to listen to what your teenager has to say. Having a sympathetic ear may just be the lever needed in order to get him or her to get involved with the move, start sorting their possessions and maybe even begin packing a few boxes of their own. You may be surprised to learn that your teenager may even relish the thought of a move, if perhaps his or her current peer group is a bit boring and they actually need a change.

If at all possible, try to plan your move at the end of the school year, or at least at the end of a semester, as this will be the least disruptive to your teenager and will have the least impact on their social life and their school work. If you have no choice as to when you have to move and it is very close to the end of your teenager’s school life, think about organismic for him or her to stay with relatives or friends until the completion of their studies.

Another aspect which is imperative when relocating a teenager is to ensure that he or she is not completely cut off from their friends. This means that they should be given one of the latest gadgets to allow him or her to e-mail, tweet, or send MSM messages to keep up with the latest news and to be able for them to report on their new lives. Organize a Skype [6] connection with a camera so that they will be able to see their friends as well.

Finally, if you will be buying or renting a home [7] in the new area, involve your teenager and listen to his or her opinions to make them feel that they are important members of the family and that their opinion is valued.


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